Lost and Gained

For every heart break, you may lose the one you have loved, but you will gain lessons that will lead you to the one who will also love you in return. :)

On Loving and Improving Yourself

Loving usually comes with pain. Either your heart gets broken or you break someone’s heart.  But nothing good will come out should you hold grudges against the opposite sex…  in doing so, it would lead you to your own downfall.  Doing so would thwart you from realizing what is wrong with you.

Whether you’re a girl who started to hate guys or whether you’re a guy who started to despise girls, maybe it’s time to reflect.  Because most likely, if that’s your way of thinking… the problem is with you.   The moment you despise the opposite sex, you’re starting to lose one of the most important things in relationships:  respect.  And besides, how can love come into your life if your heart is filled with hatred and bitterness?

When relationships fail, both parties are at fault.  It’s useless to blame the other solely.  You have your own faults.  And as long as you don’t recognize your own faults, there’s a bigger possibility for the relationships you get into to fail.

Love is a give and take relationship.  Rather than nitpicking and making sure that your prospect is the perfect match for you, try looking into how you can improve yourself to be a good match for that person.  Rather than demanding... inspire.  Change yourself… for the better.  Rather than compelling others to change, it’s better to improve yourself first.  It’s for your own personal development . J

Happy Valentine’s Day Everyone!  Fill your hearts with love, it can make a big difference in your life. J