51 Facts about Girls

A lot of my friends, especially the guys, say that girls are hard to comprehend. But come to think of it, girls and guys think and feel almost the same way. I did a quick test by making a response to the 51 Fact About Guys that flooded my newsfeed about two weeks ago (occasionally, it still pops in my feed).

It only took me about less than an hour, cause for almost all of the items, I just had to do the Find and Replace. Well yes, granted that guys and girls are not exactly the same (I did some revisions in about three or five statements), but for the majority, it was mere find and replace.

For reference, the list of 51 Facts About Guys, check this out: -http://www.likeyou.me/index.php/living/51-facts-about-guys/834/

1. Girls hate bastards and playboys.

2. "Hey, are you busy?" or "Are you doing something?" ~ two phrases girls open with to stop from stammering on the phone.

3. Girls may be talking to other guys all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the guy they truly care about.

4. Before they call, girls try to plan out a little about what they're gonna say so there aren't awkward pauses, but once she's on the phone he forgets it all and makes it up as she goes.

5. Girls go crazy over a guy's smile.

6. Girls will do anything just to get you to notice her.

7. Girls hate it when you talk about your ex-girlfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they're goin for the let-him-complain-to-you-and-then-have-him-realize- how-wonderful-and-nice-you-are method.

8. A girl who likes you wants to be the only girl you talk to.

9. Girlfriends need to be reassured often that they're still loved.

10. Don't talk about your girl friends to your girlfriend.

11. Girls get jealous easily. Well guys already know this.

12. Girls are much much more emotional than they'd like people to think.

13. Giving a girl a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh...nevermind.." would make her jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And she'll assume she did something wrong and she'll obsess about it trying to figure it out.

14. Girls are sweet flatterers but they are usually speechless when they talk to a guy they really like.

15. Girls also save money to buy presents for the guy they like. They don’t mind spending more than their shopping allowance
16. Guys are girls' weaknesses.

17. Girls are very open about themselves.

18. It's good to test a girl first before you trust her. But don't let her wait too long. She’s just waiting for your move.

19. Your best friend, whom your girlfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may will never be admired by your girlfriend. They would just become close.

20. If a girl tells you about her problems, she just needs someone to listen to her. You don't need to tell her that she did something wrong. She knows that already.

21. A usual act that proves that the girl likes you is when she starts fishing when you talk to other girls.

22. Girls love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.

23. Girls will listen to all the bragging of the guy she likes.

24. Girls use words like hot or cute to describe girl. We rarely use beautiful. If a guy uses that, he likes you.

25. Girls think WAY too much. One small thing a guy does, even if he doesn't notice it can make the girl think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.

26. Girls seek for advice not only from girls but also from other guys. Because most girls think alike and the guys also think alike, so if one girl's confused, then we're all confused.

27. Any girl could write out a rulebook or advice book for flirting, but girls find it hard to write out a book about relationships.

28. Try to be as straightforward as possible.

29. A girl has to experience rejection, because if she's never been in love and hurt, she won't be mature and grown up.

30. If the girl does something stupid in front of the guy, she will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time she spends time with the guy.

31. No matter how much guys talk about abs and biceps, personality is key.

32. Girls learn from experience not only from the romance books that girls read.

33. Girls worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being led on.

34. If a girl looks unusually calm and laid back, she's probably faking it and is spazzing inside.

35. When a girl says she likes a guy, she means it big time. Girls find it hard to tell a guy that she likes him.

36. When a girl asks you to leave her alone, she's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me."

37. Girls find it hard when a guy can’t make a decision

38. If a girl starts to talk seriously, listen to her. Something that is breaking her heart is up.

39. If your best girl friend seems to avoid you or is never around when you're with your girlfriend, she's probably jealous and likes you.

40. When a girl looks at you for longer than a second, she's definitely thinking something.

41. Girls like chivalry not chauvinism.

42. Girls don't like guys who punch softer than they do.

43. A girl has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

44. Don't be a snob. Girls gets heartbroken and give up easily.

45. Everything in moderation. You can drink, you can play your DOTA. Just not too much.

46. Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys. But girls have more girls night out than guys (plus those talks in the restroom) so more or less guys and girls are even.

47. Girls hate rejection, but they hate being led on even more.

48. Girls really think that guys are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.

49. A girl would give her left ovary or her right boob to be able to read a guy's mind for a day.

50. No girl can handle all her problems by her own. She's just too stubborn to admit it

51. Not all girls are bitches. Just because ONE is a slut doesnt mean she represents ALL of us.

Closing cycles by Paulo Coelho

Closing cycles

One always has to know when a stage comes to an end. If we insist on staying longer than the necessary time, we lose the happiness and the meaning of the other stages we have to go through.
Closing cycles, shutting doors, ending chapters – whatever name we give it, what matters is to leave in the past the moments of life that have finished.

Did you lose your job? Has a loving relationship come to an end? Did you leave your parents’ house? Gone to live abroad? Has a long-lasting friendship ended all of a sudden? You can spend a long time wondering why this has happened.

You can tell yourself you won’t take another step until you find out why certain things that were so important and so solid in your life have turned into dust, just like that. But such an attitude will be awfully stressing for everyone involved: your parents, your husband or wife, your friends, your children, your sister.
Everyone is finishing chapters, turning over new leaves, getting on with life, and they will all feel bad seeing you at a standstill.

Things pass, and the best we can do is to let them really go away.

That is why it is so important (however painful it may be!) to destroy souvenirs, move, give lots of things away to orphanages, sell or donate the books you have at home.

Everything in this visible world is a manifestation of the invisible world, of what is going on in our hearts – and getting rid of certain memories also means making some room for other memories to take their place.
Let things go. Release them. Detach yourself from them.

Nobody plays this life with marked cards, so sometimes we win and sometimes we lose. Do not expect anything in return, do not expect your efforts to be appreciated, your genius to be discovered, your love to be understood.

Stop turning on your emotional television to watch the same program over and over again, the one that shows how much you suffered from a certain loss: that is only poisoning you, nothing else.

Nothing is more dangerous than not accepting love relationships that are broken off, work that is promised but there is no starting date, decisions that are always put off waiting for the “ideal moment.”

Before a new chapter is begun, the old one has to be finished: tell yourself that what has passed will never come back.
Remember that there was a time when you could live without that thing or that person – nothing is irreplaceable, a habit is not a need.
This may sound so obvious, it may even be difficult, but it is very important.

Closing cycles. Not because of pride, incapacity or arrogance, but simply because that no longer fits your life.

Shut the door, change the record, clean the house, shake off the dust.

Stop being who you were, and change into who you are.

All of us were born with one ultimate purpose in life: To Love. 

Against Their Will...

Sometimes, people keep their distance not because they have totally forgotten about you... but only because they have decided to give you exactly what you want: they gave you time, they gave you space... even if it devastated them.

Love Is My Best Birthday Gift

On the eve of my 30th birthday, I cried... but not due to despondence but because of bliss.  

Experiencing the Holy Spirit... that was Daddy God's birthday gift for me on my 30th birthday... plus the assurance that I am so much loved.

I am loved by my children.  I'm blessed to have my kids even at an early age because Raisha and Andy are so sweet, kind and loving.  Sometimes, it's hard being a single mom.  But to experience their love and to witness how they love each other is more than enough reason for me to be thankful that God chose me to be their mother.

I am loved by my family.  We may have had our differences, but I know how much my family loves me, most especially my parents.  My pain is their pain.  Our support system could not be easily shaken.  In my weakest points, I was strengthened by the warmth of their embrace and the assurance that they'll all be there for me no matter what.

I am loved by my friends.  They are like the extension of my family.  Not only were they there to party with me during those Friday nightouts, but they were also there to listen to my repetitive rants.  In every heartbreak they were there to remind me that it's more of the guy's loss.  Lolz!

Time will come, a guy out there will fall in love with me and accept me wholeheartedly for who I am and for who I was.  My heart may not have been spared from heartache, but that's no excuse for me to give up.  I may not be meant for those guys who broke my heart or whose hearts I have broken, but my heart is meant for someone.  I know in time, our roads will meet.

Yes, I am loved. :)  I am so much loved.  I may be single right now but I'm loved by the people I treasure the most.

Daddy God, thank You so much for letting me celebrate Your love by experiencing it through the love of my family and friends.  In turn, I promise to love them, just like how much You love them. 

The reason why smart people are smart is because they have open minds.

While most people allow themselves to be caged inside the certainties of orthodox ideologies, smart people break free and succumb to the lure of their own curiosity.  They dare face the risk of failure, because they know that they'll eventually find their way out.

Before Deciding...

You never lose someone by loving them... usually, you lose someone by holding back. Yes, in some cases, letting go is the better choice... but before you do so, think twice. :)

Developing Strength

I used to think that with the right willpower, everything is possible... but this year, I realized that it's not always the case... Although you may develop your strength by fighting back, but in some cases you develop it by embracing defeat.

Washing The Face Off

Whether we admit it or not, the way we present ourselves to this world is dependent as to whom we're interacting with. Of course, we tend to flaunt a much prim behavior in the presence of authority or when situation deems flirtation is necessary. Both men and women wear this "makeup" during the first interactions. Indeed, the passion to impress is innate in humans. But to wear that impressive mask may be tiring at some point.

When a relationship reaches a certain comfort level, the previously repressed persona becomes more apparent. For some, the significance of the difference is so drastic, hence the reason why we usually hear some people utter the phrase, "You've changed."

People changing may not always be the case. More often than not, that's the real them. You weren't just able to notice that before because they were wearing a mask... and come to think of it, it's also possible that your own mask partially blocked your view.

Constant Companion

I love the security that companionship brings. Nothing compares to the joy of being with those people you love like family, friends and colleagues. But nevertheless, it's inevitable reality that people in our lives come and go... even family.

In our lifetime, our one constant companion is actually no other than ourselves. Therefore, more than anything else, one of the most important relationships we need to develop and cherish is that relationship with "self".

Last Day

Always treat a day as if it's your last day. Before you let go of an opportunity, think of the possibility that there might be no next times.

Letter to Cupid

Dear Cupid,

I hope these two things are not too much to ask:

(1) Get your eyes checked
(2) Practice your aim

Thanks.

Dont' Get Left Behind

People who opt to dwell in the past and not move on usually gets left behind.

Slicing the Pie

Living life is always 100%... although learn to accept that nothing will be divided in equal proportion. Finding the perfect balance is so hard to achieve that some looks at it as an almost impossible mission. But come to think of it, you can always tweak the ratios of your priorities. So it’s just a matter of how creative you are in slicing the pie.

You Won't Necessarily Get What You See...

Do not believe everything you see, for you may find yourself trapped in the fallacy of your own perception... whatever their depth, not a single ocean is really blue.